Often parents think that children should not cry and so they pamper them. ….THIS gets them involved in many sinful actions.
PARENTS today tend to lavish too much affection on their children. It is not wrong to love children. But you (parents) should learn how to love them. Whenever the children go astray, parents should hasten to correct their faults and bring them to the fight path. The obligations of parents do not end with providing food, schooling and knowledge of worldly matters. The children should also be provided with TO fight values. They should not be made to think that the acquisition of wealth is the be-all and end-all of life. Wealth does not accompany one when he leaves the world. Wealth is necessary only for meeting one's essential needs. Too much wealth is an embarrassment like an over-size shoe. Too little of it is likely to be painful, like a fight fitting shoe. So, it is desirable to have only that amount of wealth that is adequate for one's basic needs. It is deplorable that today, in the mad pursuit of money, people are forgetting all human qualities. Perhaps, it is our basic parental duty to do for our children what they are incapable of doing by themselves, at least until they develop and grow into capable, competent, and self-reliant individuals. OUR desire must be to nurture our children’s sense of responsibility and independence in all ways to gain a healthily living. it needs controlled awareness with love and care. One most common problem faced by we teachers is to let school-going children manage their own homework. Instead of having to constantly nag, dear parents must remind or insist that children finish their homework diligently with love under guidance ……wouldn't it be easier to let them be motivated by their intrinsic desire to be seen as ‘good and responsible pupils’ and to avoid the potential negative consequences (be it guilt, anxiety or punishment) of not completing their work? reminding children to do their homework is undoubtedly another WAY OF DRIVING THEM by a loving intention. However, when we cease trying to ‘teach’ and instead seek to create opportunities for our children to ‘learn’ responsibility and independence, a great deal of unnecessary daily battles could be avoided, thereby leaving room for us to play a more nurturing role while maintaining a positive, supportive and encouraging relationship with them.
While it is our parental duty to serve, it is also imperative that we learn to step back and allow our children to develop independence and responsibility through the experience of difficulties and mistakes. We all are well wishers of our children. It is up to the parents to endeavor to make their children lead purposeful lives. Teachers,on their part, should set an example and inculcate in their wards fight values. Only a lighted lamp can serve to light other lamps. WE MUST PRACTICE IDEALISM ....TO CHANGE THE WORLD.OUR NEW GENERATION.
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PARENTS today tend to lavish too much affection on their children. It is not wrong to love children. But you (parents) should learn how to love them. Whenever the children go astray, parents should hasten to correct their faults and bring them to the fight path. The obligations of parents do not end with providing food, schooling and knowledge of worldly matters. The children should also be provided with TO fight values. They should not be made to think that the acquisition of wealth is the be-all and end-all of life. Wealth does not accompany one when he leaves the world. Wealth is necessary only for meeting one's essential needs. Too much wealth is an embarrassment like an over-size shoe. Too little of it is likely to be painful, like a fight fitting shoe. So, it is desirable to have only that amount of wealth that is adequate for one's basic needs. It is deplorable that today, in the mad pursuit of money, people are forgetting all human qualities. Perhaps, it is our basic parental duty to do for our children what they are incapable of doing by themselves, at least until they develop and grow into capable, competent, and self-reliant individuals. OUR desire must be to nurture our children’s sense of responsibility and independence in all ways to gain a healthily living. it needs controlled awareness with love and care. One most common problem faced by we teachers is to let school-going children manage their own homework. Instead of having to constantly nag, dear parents must remind or insist that children finish their homework diligently with love under guidance ……wouldn't it be easier to let them be motivated by their intrinsic desire to be seen as ‘good and responsible pupils’ and to avoid the potential negative consequences (be it guilt, anxiety or punishment) of not completing their work? reminding children to do their homework is undoubtedly another WAY OF DRIVING THEM by a loving intention. However, when we cease trying to ‘teach’ and instead seek to create opportunities for our children to ‘learn’ responsibility and independence, a great deal of unnecessary daily battles could be avoided, thereby leaving room for us to play a more nurturing role while maintaining a positive, supportive and encouraging relationship with them.
While it is our parental duty to serve, it is also imperative that we learn to step back and allow our children to develop independence and responsibility through the experience of difficulties and mistakes. We all are well wishers of our children. It is up to the parents to endeavor to make their children lead purposeful lives. Teachers,on their part, should set an example and inculcate in their wards fight values. Only a lighted lamp can serve to light other lamps. WE MUST PRACTICE IDEALISM ....TO CHANGE THE WORLD.OUR NEW GENERATION.
DO U AGREE...? SUPPORTING VIEWS FROM NET FRIENDS
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